
There is a downside to the ‘like’ button culture. Some people even post the day-to-day updates of their relationships. Even their break-ups are mentioned in their status updates. It leads me to wonder if that is carrying an idea too far. Imagine if people stated that they really disliked a particular leader or a policy – would that lead to greater transparency and engagement? Would that lead to damaging the veneer of politeness that sustains relationships at work?“If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?” In today’s world, I would rather say, “If I change my profile picture on Facebook and no one is around to ‘like’ it, is it worth posting that?Sometime back, on Facebook, I had posted about the demise of a very well known musician. To my horror, I found 38 ‘likes’ by some of my young friends on that post. They explained to me that when they ‘like’ what I had to say, they are simply resonating with me. It is not that they were delighted to learn about the musician’s death. For a fast moving world, eternally strapped for time, the “like” button is just shorthand for “I read what you had to say and I am not ignoring it”. Maybe it is worth having a ‘like’ button in your office that glows when an employee likes something about the organization. Maybe you could have a bell that people can ring when they get a chance to do something interesting. The ‘like’ button has its uses after all.———————First published in the March 2012 issue of People Matters magazine

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